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Most people misunderstand mentoring — I certainly did. That is, frienx someone pulled me aside, invested in me, and taught me what a mentor really was. I have a passion to see that change. There is a lot of misunderstanding about how mentoring works, including how to begin a relationship with a mentor.
Here are some of them:.
Everything you know about mentoring may be wrong. Find someone that is like you, someone with a similar set of strengths and skills you want to emulate. Spend some time finding the right person. In fact, have several cimpany before committing to a single mentor. Far too big for the first meeting.
Rather, ask for an initial meeting — something informal, over coffee maybe. Keep it less than an hour. When in doubt about when to make the ask, just go for it. Did she begin the meeting by encouraging you or telling you what to do? Did she ask questions, or wait to provide answers?
Did you leave the meeting feeling better about yourself?
Was a connection made? If not, feel free to let the relationship go and seek out someone else, instead. This is not like dating. If she reciprocates, offer to get something on the calendar.
You may need to suggest a time. Make sure that it feels relaxed and not contrived. We sometimes place too high of expectations on mentoring. We want jeep give it a name, because it gives us a sense of status and importance.
That will kill a potential mentoring relationship faster than anything. Give it time; it needs to grow.
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One of them even offered me a job, which I look and will be starting in September. I am reaching a point where I am ready to establish one or two mentors Got panties wifes gfs Springdale let s my life. Jeff, I really needed this today. I think the key to this is being intentional. Like you said in the post, you want a mentor that you want to emulate — that you Looking for a friend mentor to help me and keep company.
I definitely need to be intentional about finding a mentor — thanks for the push. This is an awesome list, Jeff!
Good framework for both tto. I have lived a life of faith and sometimes find it hard to find people who challenge me. I have a lot of younger ones who listen to me. Hi Jackie, thanks for sharing. Maybe you could write that post?
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Also, I would suggest that if you want to be mentored, mentor someone else. We so often assume that the people who speak into our lives have to be more successful than us, or at least older. I agree with Melissa here too. I think the same could be said of just about anything. She has some great points. Thank you for these concrete tips.
I do have a question, especially referring to your third point: Caroline — in person is Looking for a friend mentor to help me and keep company but not always possible. Try to overcome the distance by clearly communicating.
I have Horny women in Chenega Bay mentoring relationship with someone in another state, and we email daily and talk on the phone weekly.
We also make sure of Skype and other pieces of technology to help make it feel more personal.
My mentoring relationship evolved, and continues to do so. We live on opposite sides of the country, have met only once in person, and the rest of our relationship and friendship is conducted on the phone and via email. She offered to read part of a manuscript of mine, and was serious in her devotion to it. I continue to improve because of kee.
She now even calls me with questions about what direction she should take in her current book. I think it ultimately comes down to treating it like what it is — a relationship. Thanks for that Jeff. It has to be mentoor.Casual Dating Buckeystown
I completely defer to your wisdom on this topic. You know both sides intimately! You could speak to the one making and receiving the ask. Jeff great distillation of unobvious yet profound truths. Wow, I really needed this Jeff.
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